Swingers Etiquette

Basic Rules, Etiquette and Guidelines followed by Swingers.

1. The Cardinal Rule of swinging is No means No!

2. Another rule that is pretty much universal is to show respect to others.

Always respect the rights, feelings and comfort levels of others and their spouses.

3. Be polite and show common courtesy. A no thank you sounds a lot nicer than a no way!

4. No Drugs. Illegal drugs are not welcome at any swinging environment.

5. Condoms are a must. Nobody is policing this, but it is a general rule. Always assume you should use a condom and always be pro-active in making sure one is used.

ZERO DRAMA TOLERANCE

 1. Be Hygienic

Bathe or shower before arriving. If you play with one partner, please wash up before playing with another. Refrain from using cologne or perfume.

2. Be neat and tidy

After using an area, clean up after yourself. Dispose of condoms, wrappers, towels etc. If something happens and is not easy to clean up please inform someone from the staff.

3. Be Prepared

Diosa’s offers plenty throughout the venue but you may certainly bring your own toiletries, towels, condoms, and a change of clothes.

4. Don't get wasted

This venue is BYOB. Excessive drinking is frowned upon in the lifestyle and @ Diosa’s. If you do plan on drinking more usual, make sure you have a sober partner and a safe way home.

 1. R.S.V.P

It is considered proper etiquette to reply as soon as you decide whether or not you will be attending. Not letting your Hostess know in a timely manner if you plan on attending is a good way to get off the guest list!

2. Do NOT show up empty handed

Check the e-mail or ask in advance if you are unsure of what to bring. Diosa’s is a BYOB venue. A case of water and/or bag of ice are always welcome gifts for the Hostess.

3. Arrive on time

Guests are eager to meet you! 

Also, if you are new, a tour and time to sign a Waiver are required. If you are going to be later than start time, it is courteous to text your Hostess.

(614) 434-6721

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4. Dress to IMPRESS

Everyone is expected and required to be dressed greater than casual. JEANS, SHORTS, & T-SHIRTS are not allowed and considered disrespectful. You will be asked to leave and removed from the mailing list. 

If this upsets you-Unsubscribe and find a less refind group and venue.

5. Know the room rules

 Except for the bathroom, interior doors are NEVER to be locked. Diosa’s offers private areas, semi-private areas and completely open rooms.

***If all rooms are in use and you can only find space in an open room be aware that you are not required to join in any group activity. Being in an open room does not give others permission to play with you. 

You can always say NO. The cardinal rule of swinging always applies.

6. Discretion is our law

If you see someone outside of Diosa’s whom you’ve been with, leave it at that. Don't talk about it in public. What happens at the party, stays at the party.

7. Have fun!

Getting the action started is up to you, NOT the very busy Hostess. Parties are supposed to be fun for Everyone. So, know your etiquette!